Ready, Not Worried: A New Prepper’s Guide for Women →

If you’ve ever scrolled past “meal prep hacks” or emergency tip lists and thought, “I wouldn’t even know where to start,” you’re not alone. I get it: most how-to guides are written for people with lots of free time and a second fridge. Reality check: prepping isn’t about stacking supplies for the end of the world—it’s about making life a little easier, safer, and less stressful, one practical habit at a time.

Below are some of my favorite starter strategies for building real-world prep skills without losing your mind. Whether you’re juggling work, family, or just your own busy calendar, you can dive in at your own pace and on your own terms.

Start Simple: Find Your Prep Mindset

While color-coded meal containers, tactical flashlights, or bulk bunker shopping are great, the most effective way to begin prepping is mentally. Start by asking: “What small hiccups throw off my week the most?” Is it running out of groceries, scrambling for clean clothes, not knowing what to cook, or just feeling one step behind?

Getting in the prepper mindset is about anticipation, not perfection. The first step? Embrace progress over perfection and do one small prep-related task at a time.

Try this:
For one week, make notes (mental or in an app) every time you wish you’d planned just a little bit better. Noticed you skipped breakfast again? Ran out of band-aids? Didn’t have backup batteries during a power blip? These are your prep “pain points”—and your game plan starts here.

Keep Food Stockpiling Simple

Let’s clear up a big prepping myth: you don’t need to stockpile tons of food right away. Building a solid emergency food supply is more approachable and affordable than you think! The trick? Focus on inexpensive foods that are easy to stockpile slowly over time, by grabbing some extra now and then. This strategy is perfect if you’re on a budget, short on space, or just starting out.

Here are some tried-and-true basics:

Water: Nothing is more important than water – you can go longer without food than without water, and you’ll need some for cleaning and hygiene, too. If you don’t have space for bottled water, get water in packets – yes, that exists!
Canned beans and lentils: Super affordable, filling, and packed with nutrients. They have a long shelf life and can be used in everything from quick chilies to simple salads.
Rice and pasta: Buy in bulk or when it’s on sale. Both are budget-friendly, easy to store, and form the base of countless meals. When stored properly, they can last for months or even years.
Rolled oats: Not just for breakfast! Oats are cheap, store wonderfully, and can be used for overnight oats, homemade granola, or even as a binding agent in savory recipes.

Check out my storage tips for this type of food storage for new preppers here, and see what works for you!

Canned tomatoes: A true MVP—toss them into soups, pasta sauce, stews, or rice dishes. Their acidity also helps preserve them for a long time.
Shelf-stable milk or powdered milk: A simple way to keep milk on hand without worrying about spoilage.
Frozen vegetables: If you have freezer space, buying frozen broccoli, peas, or mixed veggies when they’re on sale can pad your pantry and add quick nutrition to any meal.
Canned fish (like tuna or salmon): Inexpensive protein source, ideal for sandwiches, casseroles, or snack packs.

Stockpiling doesn’t mean you need to fill your pantry in one shopping trip. Just grab an extra can or bag when you shop, and gradually, you’ll build a stash that keeps your family fed—and your mind at ease.

All these items are easy to use, budget-friendly, and don’t require fancy cooking skills. Over time, you’ll have a pantry full of ready-to-eat, nutritious meal foundations—without breaking the bank.

Smart Shopping: Buy Food and Gear That Matches YOUR Life

Here’s an empowering truth: prepping doesn’t have to be expensive.

Plan for Your Household: Start with food that everyone loves, then include foods that are okay on occasion. Don’t buy anything you wouldn’t normally eat! When buying gear, start simply, such as a few mini-flashlights from the dollar store to hang on your interior door hinges. You should keep one on every bedroom door, as well as on the front and back doors. Don’t forget batteries! Dollar stores often have small first aid kits as well. You should have at least one.
Quality Over Quantity: If you prefer the brand name because it offers better quality than the store brand, go for it! The point of stashing the food you love is to keep morale high during a tough time. So if the kids prefer the brand-name mac ‘n’ cheese, don’t stockpile the store version for emergencies. It’s better to get a 3-for-1 of their favorite brand than a 10-for-10 of the store brand if you already know they hate it.
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Smart Storage: Making the Most of Your Space

Not every “prepper tip” reel works for city living or smaller households. You may not have space for a garden or the room to do or store “all the things.” No need to stress or feel you have no alternative – or chance.

Consider unused “dead” space for storage, like on top of the refrigerator, under the sink, or your bed.
Label it! For long-term storage items, it doesn’t need to be fancy or complicated; masking tape and a black marker work just fine.
Try growing some herbs, or get a tabletop hydroponic garden. If you really want to dive in, try container gardening. I have tips for growing in small spaces here and here.

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Start Getting Some Essential “Life Preps” (Beyond Food)

Building your food stockpile is important, but prepping in the city is about more than dinner. Here’s what to add to your “I’ve got this” checklist:

Personal safety kit: Stash a mini first aid kit, cash (at least $40), and a portable charger in your work bag or glove box. A personal alarm or whistle. If you are thinking about getting mace or a taser, check to make sure they are legal in your state and city.
Digital backups: Take photos of ID, emergency contacts, and other important papers and store them securely on your phone or in the cloud.
Communication Plan: Make sure everyone in your home knows who to contact (and how) in a minor or major emergency. More tips on fast, effective emergency comms here.

You don’t have to do it all at once. Add items one at a time, and keep mental notes of things you would like to include or plan, like taking a First Aid Course. High-five yourself for making progress towards being better prepared!

Stay Inspired—And Give Yourself Grace

Every prepping win counts, even if it’s small. Don’t compare your start to anyone else’s highlight reel. Try new ideas, and if they don’t work for you, tweak and try again.

Need inspiration? Visit my blog! Want a foolproof starter list? The Urban Lady Prepper Prepper Checklist is stacked with realistic, urban-friendly must-haves. The password is StayReady 😉

Want to connect? Listen to my latest Urban Lady Prepper podcast for tips, advice, and real-life stories about practical prepping for busy single moms and solo women, no matter how much (or little) time you have!

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The Bottom Line

Prepping isn’t about “doing it all”—it’s about empowering yourself with habits, hacks, and supplies that let you handle anything from a long workday to a little urban chaos.

Start slow. Start small. Celebrate every step forward, and remember: your journey is your own.

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